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Originally posted by BrufordFreak BrufordFreak wrote:

As much as I've pondered this question--and even experimented with metric breakdowns of numerous categories, I've come to the conclusion that objectivity is impossible: the subject is always skewed (and mired) by her or his own biases. Even the choice of which albums to select for rating comes down to subjective choices--some of which are beyond our control.

The best I've been able to accomplish is understanding that there is a difference between "best" and "favorite". 

I sorta get the best/favorite thing, but even then I wonder to myself, "if it's my favorite, why wouldn't I also think it's their best?" Most of the time I do! In certain cases I do concede that what I love so much about a particular album or song has more to do with my own memories associated with it than with the music contained therein, which has a lot to do with chance and timing.

But even then, I may still argue that I think something is the best even though I know I'm very biased towards it because of memories! People are stubborn, and subjective.
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Originally posted by Lewian Lewian wrote:

Sorry Nick, I usually appreciate your postings a lot, but...
Originally posted by nick_h_nz nick_h_nz wrote:

The top 100 is effectively based upon a frequentist conception of evidence, which attempts to avoid explicitly subjective elements, but like most frequentist conceptions of evidence does so at the price of a misleading impression of objectivity.


I don't think it conveys any impression of objectivity and as such cannot be misleading.


Otherwise, I know a thing or two about frequentism and p-values, and your comparison makes no sense whatsoever. (For starters, a proper frequentist will know that hunting for significance is abuse and does not work according to proper frequentist logic. I leave it at that because this is not the place for that discussion.) 


It’s fine. As I had posted not too long before, I was posting while not particularly sober (never a good idea). I know what I meant, but reading it in the cold light of the morning it doesn’t say it well at all.

I am well aware that hunting for significance is a abuse. I put the inverted commas around the wrong part of the sentence, and I meant to have them around “researchers”. Which is to say, that people come to PA expecting it to be an objective list, when it is not. They are hunting for significance (which is the wrong way to do it, as Pedro so often tells us in no uncertain terms), and therefore they find it, and then (inadvertently or otherwise) replicate it.

This is also what I meant by a misleading impression of objectivity. Again, horribly worded, so I can see why you’ve misunderstood my intention. By misleading, I again meant to the “researchers” who come to PA. While the PA 100 might not convey any impression of objectivity to you (and nor should it, because it’s not), it misleads those who know no better, and/or those who conflate intersubjectivity with objectivity.

It was a poor analogy, and even more poorly worded, for which I apologise, but I think it does still hold true. Popularity is self-sustaining and self-perpetuating. Just because one band and/or album has managed to get on to that fractal spiral, doesn’t mean that there aren’t others just as worthy, but simply weren’t picked up on. And even if they are eventually recognised, they have a very long way to go before they can catch up and “compete” with those who have already been riding the popularity bandwagon.

All I really was saying was that attempting to find objectivity in PA is a fool’s errand. It ain’t going to happen - and as far as I’m concerned, nor should it.

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Originally posted by Sacro_Porgo Sacro_Porgo wrote:

Originally posted by BrufordFreak BrufordFreak wrote:

As much as I've pondered this question--and even experimented with metric breakdowns of numerous categories, I've come to the conclusion that objectivity is impossible: the subject is always skewed (and mired) by her or his own biases. Even the choice of which albums to select for rating comes down to subjective choices--some of which are beyond our control.

The best I've been able to accomplish is understanding that there is a difference between "best" and "favorite". 

I sorta get the best/favorite thing, but even then I wonder to myself, "if it's my favorite, why wouldn't I also think it's their best?" Most of the time I do! In certain cases I do concede that what I love so much about a particular album or song has more to do with my own memories associated with it than with the music contained therein, which has a lot to do with chance and timing.

But even then, I may still argue that I think something is the best even though I know I'm very biased towards it because of memories! People are stubborn, and subjective.

I often find that what is my favourite release from a band or artist is not what I think is their best, but even then I recognise that what I think is their best is still only my opinion. But so often my favourite release from any band or artist tends to be the first I heard from them. Once I have listened to and acquired more of their discography, I can recognise that it is probably not what I think is their best - but it remains my favourite, probably mostly because it was my first.

So while best and favourite do sometimes align for me, more often they don’t - but neither are objective, but simply my opinions. 🤷🏻‍♂️



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Originally posted by Logan Logan wrote:

Appreciation is, of course subjective, but if one agrees to or adheres to certain standards or set criteria, then some efforts can be considered objectively more successful then others. An example of this for me would be a replication challenge. We have three performers asked to read and play Ligeti's Devil's Staircase (Etude 13) and are asked not to improvise, but to play it accurately. Performer one is Keyboard Cat. The cat's human servant (one does not own the cat, the cat owns you) sprinkles dry cat food across the keyboard cum catwalk. The cat walk back and forth and it sounds nothing like the Ligeti piece. The second performer is an acclaimed concert pianist who plays all the right notes in the right order and at the right time. The fourth is a three year old beginner (first time trying to play the piano) who lacks the experience to play the piece. The fifth is a very drunk concert pianist who fumbles over the keys and then vomits all over the piano. The mother of the three year old might well enjoy her child's performance the most, but it wouldn't be the "best" according to the criterion of replication (playing a piece). The drunk's regurgitation might ultimately be declared great performance and visual art, but it would not be considered the most successful according to the challenge. The keyboard cat's performance may be the most successful on youtube, going viral (I know I like cat videos), but again it wouldn't be the most accurate performance. Now we have those same people record an album\s worth each of Liszt at the same level of proficiency, and we can judge it at the level of performance.

Don't disagree with this, but an album review based solely on objective assessments would be rather devoid of interest.

"Joe Schmingelhuebl here gives us his interpretation of Chopin's Etudes Op. 10 & 25. He plays a 1963 Bosendorfer grand piano. The album was recorded by Ted Plotz at Dingus Studios in Butt, Texas using a pair of Moosephlegm model 103 cardioid microphones. Schmingelhuebl plays the compositions without technical errors. His version of Op. 10 is taken faster than Von Turpentine's (1963) but more slowly than Erik Drob's (1992). The recording is available on compact disc or 180gm vinyl."

We want the subjective stuff!


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Originally posted by Psychedelic Paul Psychedelic Paul wrote:

Then again, you could use my Max Factor 10 rating system, where you rank each of the following album factors out of ten to give an overall percentage, although I've never used the system myself, as I'm far too subjective. Tongue
 
 * Emotional Appeal
 * Originality
 * Power and Passion
 * Production & Arrangement
 * Replayability
 * Songwriting Technique
 * Technical Ability
 * Versatility
 * Vocal Ability
 * That Indefinable 'X' Factor

am I going Wacko and , but this seems to make sense...

Though obviously, given PP's ratings, it's obviously not working out for him... TongueLOL
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Originally posted by Mascodagama Mascodagama wrote:

"Joe Schmingelhuebl here gives us his interpretation of Chopin's Etudes Op. 10 & 25. He plays a 1963 Bosendorfer grand piano. The album was recorded by Ted Plotz at Dingus Studios in Butt, Texas using a pair of Moosephlegm model 103 cardioid microphones. Schmingelhuebl plays the compositions without technical errors. His version of Op. 10 is taken faster than Von Turpentine's (1963) but more slowly than Erik Drob's (1992). The recording is available on compact disc or 180gm vinyl."

Hey, I think I have this album ! LOL


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@Nick: Fair enough, I agree with pretty much all in your later posting, still I don't think it has much to do with frequentism and p-values, not even as some kind of analogy.
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I think the only thing truly objective about a musical recording is the shape of the sound wave...

If there were such a thing as an 'objective' view of music, what consequence would we see from that? If a recording were considered 'objectively' better than another, what effects would we be able to observe in the world relating to that objective measure?

I suppose you would see that in all cases, that recording would rank higher than its lower-ranked counterpart, since we are talking about ratings.

But even albums that can almost be considered "objectively" better due to their notoriety / influence / etc., like those at the top of the top album list, have ratings from 1 to 5 stars. So that "objective" better-ness is doing nothing.

Perhaps we could argue that the percentage of ratings at certain levels creates a statistically objective view of an album, and weight that via the number of submissions? And if we did, what impact would that 'objective' rating of an album have?

It obviously wouldn't mean anything to any subjective experience of the album, because the 1 star, 5 star, and other opinions would still exist.

And there isn't really any other impact to the existence of said recording, is there?

Even among individuals, there is no objective experience - I love music I encountered years ago I couldn't imagine falling in love with today. Heck, I've rated albums as 2 stars on this website that now, ten years later, I've listened to more than albums I rated at 5 stars at that time, because my subjective experience of them has changed over time, and that subjective rating was even really just my opinion in that moment.

Without any observable outcome of objectivity, how can we validate it exists, that we've chosen the right definition?

As I said at the start of the post, the only truly objective thing is the sound wave itself...the rest is all subjective. And how do you rate a sound wave, if not from your subjective experience?

After all, to us, a bird song may be beautiful in the afternoon, or annoying in the morning when it wakes us up.To the bird it may be a welcome mating call, and to a predator it may drive them to the bird.

In what way is music any different? It is all tied to the subjective response to the sound wave and the information it conveys, at the moment it is received by the subjective listener and what they can take from it in that moment, which may be driven as much by what it sounds like to them in that moment, what they are doing, and any previous attachment that they had formed with that music (or may be in the process of forming).
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Originally posted by David_D David_D wrote:

Originally posted by Progosopher Progosopher wrote:

Objectivity requires measurement, but how can you measure art? You can look at all the technical elements - complexity of composition, virtuosity of performance, production standards, and the like, but none of these can create a good album themselves. Any element can be taken to an extreme, but none of those necessarily equal quality.  Yet, a good rating, that is one that is worthy of examining even if one disagrees with it on the surface, must include these technicalities. A rating that requires exclusively on them is a rating from a technician. Now, a technician can also appreciate artistry, but by doing so goes beyond the technicalities. Objecitivity also requires clear standards. The Archives here provides a list of characteristics common to Progressive Rock and those are the best we have for this. The more knowledgeable about music a reviewer is the more objective that person can be. But this still will not remove any subjectivity. For me, the best reviews combine knowledge with informed subjectivity.

But you're actually saying, Progosopher, that "a good rating" possess a certain degree of objectivity?

That's what my OP is asking about.

Yes, that is what I am saying, which is my own response to the OP.  A certain degree is not 100%, so there must necessarily be subjectivity as well. Some objectivity will allow the review to go beyond merely saying, "I liked it."  The degree of objectivity is up to the reviewer. My main point is that a good review is a combination of both objectivity and subjectivity. By good here, I specifically mean one that indicates the music is worth listening to. It may be well or poorly written, which is another standard. I can enjoy a well written review, even if I do not like the artist in question. Objectivity provides a factual basis, which I find important. Subjectivity provides personal meaning which invites the reader to share in the enjoyment.
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Originally posted by TheGazzardian TheGazzardian wrote:

After all, to us, a bird song may be beautiful in the afternoon, or annoying in the morning when it wakes us up.

Ah yes, my thoughts precisely. There is no such thing as "good" music or "bad" music, just music that fits the circumstance or doesn't. 

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Originally posted by jamesbaldwin jamesbaldwin wrote:

If we want to talk about objective criteria, the historical importance could be quite objective as a criterion,....

I find this criterion very good to mention, James B., even I don't consider it to be specifically objective.
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Originally posted by Mascodagama Mascodagama wrote:

We want the subjective stuff!

Well, different folks different strokes. I must say that I don't find very subjective reviews particularly interesting. 
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Originally posted by David_D David_D wrote:

Originally posted by Mascodagama Mascodagama wrote:

We want the subjective stuff!
Well, different folks different strokes. I must say that I don't find very subjective reviews particularly interesting. 

So what then in your view gives a review objective qualities?
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Originally posted by David_D David_D wrote:

Originally posted by Mascodagama Mascodagama wrote:

We want the subjective stuff!

Well, different folks different strokes. I must say that I don't find very subjective reviews particularly interesting. 

Can you provide evidence of an album review that is not subjective? I don’t think I’ve ever seen an objective album review in my life. Every album review will have some objective criteria mentioned, even if it’s just the number of musicians or the instruments they play - but the vast majority of every album review will be subjective, because it’s virtually the only way to write a review. A music review, by definition is a critical appraisal/assessment of a work that seeks to judge the worth/value/importance of it, as heard by the listener. By its very nature, it’s subjective. I sincerely doubt there has ever been a purely objective review written for an album, and furthermore doubt that it would even be possible,

As usual in your posts and comments, you make plenty of observations, but provide very little evidence to back them up. When questioned as to what exactly you mean, you tend to either completely ignore the questions (as I expect you will do in this case, given you have expressed elsewhere your dislike of me), or get overly defensive and suggest that people are not reading your OP and/or not understanding what you mean. The thing is, we have all read your OP, and while we ask for elucidation of what you mean, you stubbornly resist answering on the basis that we don’t understand, rather than trying to help us understand.

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Gotta agree. I don’t think I’ve ever come across a clearly objective review…and really do not imagine such as an interesting read.
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Originally posted by Sean Trane Sean Trane wrote:

Originally posted by Psychedelic Paul Psychedelic Paul wrote:

Then again, you could use my Max Factor 10 rating system, where you rank each of the following album factors out of ten to give an overall percentage, although I've never used the system myself, as I'm far too subjective. Tongue
 
 * Emotional Appeal
 * Originality
 * Power and Passion
 * Production & Arrangement
 * Replayability
 * Songwriting Technique
 * Technical Ability
 * Versatility
 * Vocal Ability
 * That Indefinable 'X' Factor

am I going Wacko and , but this seems to make sense...

Though obviously, given PP's ratings, it's obviously not working out for him... TongueLOL
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Originally posted by nick_h_nz nick_h_nz wrote:

Originally posted by David_D David_D wrote:

Originally posted by Mascodagama Mascodagama wrote:

We want the subjective stuff!

Well, different folks different strokes. I must say that I don't find very subjective reviews particularly interesting. 

Can you provide evidence of an album review that is not subjective? I don’t think I’ve ever seen an objective album review in my life. Every album review will have some objective criteria mentioned, even if it’s just the number of musicians or the instruments they play - but the vast majority of every album review will be subjective, because it’s virtually the only way to write a review. A music review, by definition is a critical appraisal/assessment of a work that seeks to judge the worth/value/importance of it, as heard by the listener. By its very nature, it’s subjective. I sincerely doubt there has ever been a purely objective review written for an album, and furthermore doubt that it would even be possible,


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Originally posted by David_D David_D wrote:

Originally posted by Logan Logan wrote:

Appreciation is, of course subjective, but if one agrees to or adheres to certain standards or set criteria, then some efforts can be considered objectively more successful then others. 

I've seen in this thread, and previously as well, that the definition of "objective" commonly used in the music art seems to be another one than the common one used in philosophy (and which I used here).
Can you tell me maybe how "objective" is commonly defined in the music art?

After second thought, I can't really imagine that the definition used in the music art is different from the philosophical one, even it can get some specifical meaning when applicated.

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I've asked you to stay away from me, Nick.
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Originally posted by David_D David_D wrote:


I've asked you to stay away from me, Nick.

You have, but that’s not how a forum works. Rather than ask me to stay away, instead feel welcome to ignore my posts, even if ultimately you sometimes agree with them (as per your post above where you eventually realise that the definition of objectivity in music reviews is not different from the philosophical one).

It’s not as if I’m being impolite or disrespectful with my posts. I’m simply saying things you don’t agree with. That’s the nature of a forum, just as subjectivity is the nature of music reviews. Life isn’t always the way we would want it, and sometimes there are people in it that we don’t get along with. But unless those people are breaking boundaries (whether that be guidelines, rules, laws or mores), then you need to learn to ignore, not engage, or perhaps take onboard where they are coming from. I make no personal attacks, when I argue against your observations. In fact, on more than one occasion I have attempted to give you the benefit of the doubt, and ask for evidence of what you espouse. (And, I should note, I’m far from the only one to ask you to back up the claims you make.)

A good forum (and yes, that is my subjective opinion) is not an echo chamber, and allows for (even encourages) dissenting views. Disagreement can often be the first step towards further learning, and even empathy. Perhaps you should not ask in your OP for people’s opinions on a subject, if you’re not willing to take onboard those that differ from your own? (Though even doing that, will not - and should not - stop people from doing just that.)

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