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Negoba 
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 Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:54 |
Maybe your inner city is different than mine, and maybe you were lucky.
Folks don't know how much you are or aren't carrying until they roll you. How much you're carrying has nothing to do with it.
There are many many different reasons for being homeless. But the typical homeless person that beg in a busy downtown is extremely different from the people walking around where I work.
Edited by Negoba - February 28 2011 at 16:56
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:51 |
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Taking money out to hand to someone is hardly going to attract muggers unless you're carrying large sums of money. I grew up in the inner city, so maybe it doesn't bother me as much? I don't know.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Negoba
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:49 |
Safe from getting mugged. Assuming you have more money and taking it. Stabbed, shot, beaten, etc. usually goes with it.
I work in a very inner city clinic (East Saint Louis) right next to a grocery / convenience store with alot of foot traffic. Most of the people that ask me for money look like every other person walking in and out of the store. Most are either teenagers or young adults. The exact same demographic are a large proportion of my patients at that site.
Obviously, I've chosen to make my profession giving health care in that area. But you have to have some safety awareness.
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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rushfan4
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:40 |
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St. Louis and Detroit have the top two murder rates in the country, so yes, it is a bit dangerous to deal with people who are wandering the streets in these cities. Desperation breeds danger.
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The T
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:36 |
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I assume safe from potentially dangerous people who might be trying to pass as homeless or for potentially dangerous homeless
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:29 |
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Safe from what? I'm confused.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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Negoba
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:23 |
It would actually be quite dangerous to get money out at all outside my place of work, where I'm asked most often. Most of those asking I doubt are homeless. The oly place I commonly see the truly homeless and poor folks are standing at stoplights during rush hour. This is extremely dangerous and I'm not going to encourage that either. St. Louis is a very different place than the college town where I first encountered this, and back then I gave more even though I made substantially less. (I didn't give time or money to charity much then though). It might be different downtown where you could remain anonymous and have enough others around you to remain safe.
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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Equality 7-2521
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:16 |
 Negoba wrote:
I should probably give more than I do, but I'm in the camp of giving to food pantries, shelter, etc rather than money directly to someone who begs. Choosing to panhandle is not an accurate measure of the degree of need, and giving out spare change may not be the most effective way to help. Frankly, it's an (empathetic and caring) emotional reaction to a very narrow moment in time and having to look directly at another person. There's nothing wrong with it, but if you're serious about the matter, think about going beyond spare change.
Or at least that's the excuse I tell myself. |
Why not do both? That's the path I choose and recommend.
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"One had to be a Newton to notice that the moon is falling, when everyone sees that it doesn't fall. "
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The T
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:06 |
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I'd say that is somewhat reasonable but in the end like ThePessimist said: even if that single action which will not change, as you say, anything, at least improves the other person's day, you're doing a good rather than a bad to someone.
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Negoba
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 16:02 |
I should probably give more than I do, but I'm in the camp of giving to food pantries, shelter, etc rather than money directly to someone who begs. Choosing to panhandle is not an accurate measure of the degree of need, and giving out spare change may not be the most effective way to help. Frankly, it's an (empathetic and caring) emotional reaction to a very narrow moment in time and having to look directly at another person. There's nothing wrong with it, but if you're serious about the matter, think about going beyond spare change.
Or at least that's the excuse I tell myself.
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You are quite a fine person, and I am very fond of you. But you are only quite a little fellow, in a wide world, after all.
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The T
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 15:34 |
The Pessimist wrote:
A person's past is irrelevant. Part of the problem with the human race is people saying, like rushfan above, "well if everyone else doesn't do it, then why should I?". It's the reason hardly anyone stands up for anything anymore. Let me tell a little scenario:
Every time i get a student cheeseburger from MacDonalds in Stratford upon Avon in England, I give it to the homeless guy that hangs around on the way back to college. All my friends look at me like I'm from another planet or something. I ask "what's so weird about that?" and you know what? They all struggle to find an answer. Why? Because they are afraid to go against the grain, and criticise anyone who does.
I give to the homeless not because I'm trying to be weird. Not because I feel it gives me character. I do it because I am human, and I have a lot of heart for people less fortunate than me, and if I can make even one guy's day better for him, then I'll be happy. I couldn't give a toss how much meth or herion he takes, he's still human.
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Padraic
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 14:18 |
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I don't encounter any homeless people in my daily life, but I give often to a local food bank that distributes food to those in need.
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The Pessimist
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 14:04 |
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A person's past is irrelevant. Part of the problem with the human race is people saying, like rushfan above, "well if everyone else doesn't do it, then why should I?". It's the reason hardly anyone stands up for anything anymore. Let me tell a little scenario:
Every time i get a student cheeseburger from MacDonalds in Stratford upon Avon in England, I give it to the homeless guy that hangs around on the way back to college. All my friends look at me like I'm from another planet or something. I ask "what's so weird about that?" and you know what? They all struggle to find an answer. Why? Because they are afraid to go against the grain, and criticise anyone who does.
I give to the homeless not because I'm trying to be weird. Not because I feel it gives me character. I do it because I am human, and I have a lot of heart for people less fortunate than me, and if I can make even one guy's day better for him, then I'll be happy. I couldn't give a toss how much meth or herion he takes, he's still human.
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"Market value is irrelevant to intrinsic value."
Arnold Schoenberg
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Vibrationbaby
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:48 |
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When I know for sure that it is for alcohol or drugs I give generously. I like honesty. One guy I give 5 bucks to every now and then stands on the corner with a half full bottle shouting out " It's not for food! It's for alcohol ! !
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The T
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:37 |
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It actually should sound more like post-rock...
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rushfan4
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:35 |
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Sounds like an extreme metal band.
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Epignosis
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:34 |
The T wrote:
You need Thorazine... |
Haven't heard of that album.
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The T
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:27 |
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You need Thorazine...
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Epignosis
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:26 |
Rainbows soft light alternate view sunlight tell me someone alternate view alternate view, surely, surely
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rushfan4
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Posted: February 28 2011 at 13:20 |
Epignosis wrote:
The T wrote:
Instead of listening for the 1298791 time to Tales from Topographic Oceans, some people should just read about or talk to actual schizophrenics or psychotic people and realize that, when your mind is confused and running at a much faster rate than normal, narcotic substances sometimes seem to bring relief. Yet this is never considered. |
So...what you're saying is that TFTO is like talking to schizophrenics or psychotic people?
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I think that there is more of a similarity with listening to Magma. But that might have something to do with Christian Vander's looks in James' signature.
Edited by rushfan4 - February 28 2011 at 13:24
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